Mistakes Men Make When Approaching A Woman

It can get pretty challenging approaching an
attractive girl and a lot of rules apply. It is so
easy focusing on what to do or say, rather
than mistakes to avoid.
Here are a few mistakes men make when trying

to chat up a girl they are attracted to:

1. Being indecisive: If you spend so much time
glancing at her direction every few seconds, just
trying to gather up the courage to make a
move, this will work against you.
Women are drawn to confidence. And if she
notices you taking forever to approach her, she
automatically writes you off as shy or
inexperienced. A fast and casual “Hello” works
better than if you stand in the corner trying to come up with the best pick-up line.

2. Being overtly nice: Pretty girls are used to
guys falling over themselves to impress them,
so if you want to catch her attention, this way
would not work for you. Your aim is to stand
out from the pack of desperate men.
How do you do this? Do not be afraid to tease
her lightly from time to time. This does not
mean you have to be insulting, but showing her
you are not petrified of offending her will give
you an added edge.

3. Too many questions: If you want to
encourage her to open up to you, asking her
questions like it is an interview is not going to
help. Do not throw questions after questions at
her. Tell her funny stories, tell her about
yourself, phrase your questions differently, and
she will slide easily into the conversation.

4. Talking too much: Just like asking a bunch
of questions is bad, also talking endlessly will
ruin your chances at impressing her. Make sure
you give her opportunities to open up about her
self, else you will realize after your long,
monotonous rant that she has already zoned
out.

5. Being too forward: The aim of chatting her
up is not to get her into bed with you on that
same day (unless she is a prostitute).
Try not to be too forward and introducing
Sexual innuendos in the hopes that she might
bed-you. Women know sexual attraction is
usually one of the first reasons men approach
them, but blatantly passing across this message would only turn her off.

6. Being too touchy: Not everyone likes to
have their personal space invaded. Do not assume that because she is receptive of your
attempt at getting her attention, she is
comfortable enough to want you to physically
touch her.
Unless she initiates it, save the hand-holding,
hugs and other physical contact until she
actually agrees to go on a date with you.