News: "I've never experienced love," said Tems.

Nigerian music sensation Temilade Openiyi, widely known as Tems, recently shared her insights on love during an appearance on the “Flow With Korty” show. The 28-year-old artist revealed that she has yet to experience love in the conventional sense and challenged the popular notion that “love is blind,” asserting that true love is a deliberate choice made with open eyes.

Tems defines true love as the act of recognizing and accepting someone's imperfections while still choosing to be with them.

"For me, loving someone means seeing them as they truly are, flaws and all, and still making the conscious decision to embrace them," Tems explained. "It's about acknowledging, 'I see you for who you are, and I still choose to have you in my life.'"

Tems expressed a desire for a profound and genuine connection that surpasses mere infatuation. She pointed out that many people often mistake infatuation for love. She emphasized that true love involves accepting someone's imperfections.

“Love isn’t blindness,” she emphasized. “It’s recognizing someone’s flaws and still desiring to be with them.”

Tems yearns for a partner who understands and accepts her for who she is, and chooses to be with her despite any imperfections.